Born and raised in Texas. I moved to California when I graduated high school. I know exactly what you are talking about. Snowboard in the morning, destert race in the afternoon, and surf in the evening; big job, big pay, big house, fine women, blah, blah, blah. Been there, done that, got the tee-shirt, left the state and the woman behind.
I didn't really find it that hard to do (except for breaking down in the middle of the Mojave 50 miles out of Barstow on my way out and CHP wouldn't even call me a tow.) I even tried it again after military service, and that only lasted nine months before I had to divorce the state once and for all. Now I have a better job, better pay, better home, and far better woman.
So yes, it is easy for me to say because I have done it more than once, and not just with California. I had to divorce South Carolina and Virginia as well. The Florida and Alaska divorces were forced on me, so I will be back. Like I said, I would move.
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