another part of this problem is that you can flip burgers at a Mickey D,s and make 12 to 14 a hour when I was a kid you grew up pumping gas , then carrying lumber for a carpenter, then hammering nails framing , then signing on as a apprentice to a skilled blue collar job, in my case it was logging I was taught how to fall timber and told and shown how to do it without killing myself or someone else then I was told ok you are on your own you know all I can teach you go make a living , it was hard work, I loved every min.of it and still love the lifestyle today.....I was never a money monger but kids today grow up and never get a first job mom and dad pay for everything and they play baseball and soccer and there is no winners and loosers everyone is equal, well that is BS life is not that way....... life is a tough SOB get effin used to it , and don't burn a flag in front off me!