This reminds me of a military quote, Occifer versus Enlisted. The Officers were "managers" but the Enlisted ran the show, daily, every single day. I was Enlisted. "Sir" is what you called the Officers (Occifers). I worked for a living, and wasn't a "manager," like the higher-paid Officers. You'll hear that often, in military circles, when you call someone "Sir..." The response usually is "FUK THAT! I'm not a "SIR" - I WORKED for a living!"...
Officers suck. Only the successful Officers had some STRONG Enlisted men shaping their careers. The unsuccessful Officers were micro-managers that didn't listen to their Enlisted Senior NCOs, or just had weakass NCOs under them - and those NCOs didn't uphold a standard. Weak NCOs SUCK, and they only breed fucked up Officers. Strong NCOs fuk young Lieutenants up with regularity, early in their Officer career, and guide them on the path of true Military Leadership. "Give them enough rope to make mistakes, but NEVER give them enough rope to hurt someone..." Let 'em fuk up, but REIGN THAT ASS IN BEFORE IT GETS SERIOUS. When that is about to happen, you must seriously LAY THE SMACKETH DOWN UPON THEM. I never wavered from that. I've issued some incredible ass-beatdowns upon them, sometimes in private, afterwards - and sometimes it's not gonna wait for that... And you do it NOW - in front of everyone. "You never chastize a Superior in front of Subordinates" has it's place, in normal circumstances - but not always. Sometimes you need to blow the fuk up, no matter who is around... Real lessons get learned, right then...
So, I'm not a "Sir," I worked for a living...
I am simply "Tom-Ass..."