It's been hard on her, it seems like two steps forward and one step back. She still hasn't had surgery! She is on her third surgeon, the first one was an ass so to speak, the second one she really liked but she doesn't work with a plastic surgeon. That one referred her to the third one who does work with a plastic surgeon. We both really like both of them, and she is now scheduled for a mastectomy on April 4th. The plastic surgeon will be present and do reconstruction right after the breast surgeon finishes.