Here is a list for you to start & others can add if they want.
As said , make sure you have the correct components , buffer ,spring , receiver extension (buffer tube )
Start out with the std. action drill , one round (does the BCG travel far enough for the now empty magazine to hold back the Bolt Carrier Group)
two rounds , does the BCG hold back, three & so forth , till you get to the twentieth round in the mag.,you get the idea . You can install fully loaded mags & fire till you get a malfunction & take note on when & what type.
You can use the same mag. & if you use the same brand of mag's , number them . I don't care what manufacturer's mag you use , any could cause a problem , they are mass produced.
Does the rifle malfunction at any time in the drill , stop & note the type of malfunction .
Inspect the fire control group (trigger,hammer , disconnector )all working to spec's ? Any unusual wear on any component ?
Make sure the gas block is correctly installed , even if you have to take it to some one to make sure.
This is only a partial list & there is much more . Don't let this get the best of you , you have to be some what of a detective on some rifles to get them to fully function to spec's , The answer is there & probably some thing simple .
As far as a little grease , I've been repairing & building ,both select fire & semi auto AR's for over thirty years & never had a problem with using it. The key is , as with any thing else , is do not over do it .